Children know best
I’m with my Mom, sitting next to her in a crowded restaurant, and yet I feel alone. I should be warmed by her proximity, by my ability to put my arm around her shoulder and squeeze her towards me. I can swing my leg three inches to the left and our knees will bump together. But she is light years away. She is the earth and I am the moon. She is a falling star glimpsed out of the corner of my eye; I’m fervently making a wish upon that star, my mother the star. I'm in the middle of my life with an established career, strong marriage, and healthy and active children of my own. But my Mom's dementia has only made me realize how much I still need her. There are so many things I want to tell her, so many lessons she has yet to teach me. I think about my Mom's life and my own, the similarities and differences, the choices we both made. We've always been close, I thought I knew her well. But there are so many things I've never asked her, so much about her I don't k...
Glad you put that in here, I think that is a great idea! You can even start wrapping a little earlier this year so you don't have to wrap 25 a once! LOL
ReplyDeleteBut, I see you failed to mention the heavy competition that our advent Calendar held back on Arch street. If someone opened one on someone else's day and yes who got to do christmas Eve and Christmas Day! But once you guys were gone I got it all to myself.... wasn't quite as fun! Good memories, and you are creating your own.
This is such a great idea, Paige. I might borrow it next year! The advent box at our house is good for candy and competition but we're somehow missing the meaning on Mulberry Dr!
ReplyDeleteSusan - I loved the pepperonis in your advent box, so funny!
ReplyDeleteJulie - always a competition in our house, even Advent!